Let’s get real for a second. There was a time when I didn’t know my worth, didn’t believe in myself. I was mad insecure, and every time I failed, I’d beat myself up and feel like a total failure. But then, something clicked. I realized I’m way more valuable than I ever thought. I’m really *that* girl! It took some self-talks, writing down the good and the bad about myself, and seeing that my good far outweighs the bad. All the good I do and give to others – it’s impossible to think I’m not worth anything!

Here are 10 ways to stop doubting yourself and start really knowing your worth:

1. Self-Talks: Hype Yourself Up

Look in the mirror and tell yourself you’re amazing. It might feel weird at first, but trust me, it works. Keep saying it until you believe it.

2. Write It Down: Journaling

Grab a journal and write down the good and the bad about yourself. You’ll see that your good qualities outshine the bad. It’s like a reality check.

3. Celebrate Your Wins

Big or small, celebrate every victory. Did you get out of bed today? Celebrate that. Finished a project? Celebrate that too. A win is a win.

4. Surround Yourself with Positivity

Hang out with people who lift you up, not those who bring you down. Positive vibes only.

5. Set Boundaries

Learn to say no. Your time and energy are precious. Don’t let anyone drain you.

6. Affirmations: Speak Life

Start your day with positive affirmations. “I am worthy. I am enough. I am capable.” Repeat these until they stick.

7. Focus on Growth, Not Perfection

Perfection is a myth. Focus on progress and growth. Every step forward is a step towards knowing your worth.

8. Self-Care: Treat Yo’ Self Take time for self-care. Whether it’s a bubble bath, reading a book, or just chilling – do what makes you feel good.

9. Reflect on Your Journey

Look back at how far you’ve come. You’ve overcome so much, and that’s something to be proud of.

10. Believe in Your Worth

Believe that you’re valuable just as you are. You don’t need to prove it to anyone. You’re worthy because you exist.

I started realizing my worth by doing these things, and it made a world of difference. I began to see that I have so much to offer, and my good qualities outnumber the bad. I’m more than enough, and so are you.

Remember, you’re really that girl/guy. Know your worth and let your light shine!

Seqouia 🤞🏾